Mother Mary Comes to Me [图书] 豆瓣
作者: Arundhati Roy Scribner 2025 - 9
A raw and deeply moving memoir from the legendary author of The God of Small Things and The Ministry of Utmost Happiness that traces the complex relationship with her mother, Mary Roy, a fierce and formidable force who shaped Arundhati’s life both as a woman and a writer.
Mother Mary Comes to Me, Arundhati Roy’s first work of memoir, is a soaring account, both intimate and inspirational, of how the author became the person and the writer she is, shaped by circumstance, but above all by her complex relationship to the extraordinary, singular mother she describes as “my shelter and my storm.”
“Heart-smashed” by her mother Mary’s death in September 2022 yet puzzled and “more than a little ashamed” by the intensity of her response, Roy began to write, to make sense of her feelings about the mother she ran from at age eighteen, “not because I didn’t love her, but in order to be able to continue to love her.” And so begins this astonishing, sometimes disturbing, and surprisingly funny memoir of the author’s journey from her childhood in Kerala, India, where her single mother founded a school, to the writing of her prizewinning novels and essays, through today.
With the scale, sweep, and depth of her novels, The God of Small Things and The Ministry of Utmost Happiness, and the passion, political clarity, and warmth of her essays, Mother Mary Comes to Me is an ode to freedom, a tribute to thorny love and savage grace—a memoir like no other.

读过 Mother Mary Comes to Me 🌕🌕🌕🌕🌑
开头写得太平面,有毒母女关系残忍得近乎无聊,埋怨自己为什么讨厌回忆录还非要看。唯一有趣是形容她妈亲手设计建造的学校是个邪教:所有人都仰慕她钦佩她,所有学生和女人都受她庇佑,除了亲生小孩也就是作者和她哥。
但随着作者16岁逃离妈去德里上大学,回忆录的焦点终于回归自身:建筑系毕业后随便找个工作糊口,被选中做电影演员之后爱上导演,和对方合作写剧本拍戏,由此踏上作家之路,第一本小说就得了布克奖,又开始为了公平斗争写非虚构(不公正事件都是高度相似的,从印度看到了三峡大坝和香港的影子),参加印度共产党躲进丛林里抗争执政党,在John Berger鼓励下开始写第二本小说。
最终由于死亡又绕回母亲身上,这时可以原谅开头的贫乏语言了,果敢伟大的女人确实可以只用单纯的事迹形容。而作者也度过了同样勇敢传奇的一生。