Based on an episode of "Sex and the City，" offers a lighthearted， no-nonsense look at dead-end relationships， with advice for letting go and moving on.

There’s no doubt about it—breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It’s called a breakup because it’s broken , and starting right here, right now, it’s time to dry your tears, put down that pint of ice cream, log out of his e-mail, and open this book to Chapter One–and start turning your breakup into a breakover.
From Greg Behrendt, the co-author of the smash two-million copy bestseller He’s Just Not That Into You , comes It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken --the ultimate survival guide to getting over Mr. Wrong and reclaiming your inner Superfox. From how to put yourself through “he-tox,” to how to throw yourself a kick-ass pity party, Greg and his wife, Amiira, share their hilarious and helpful roadmap for getting past the heartache and back into the game. You will learn:
• Why you shouldn’t call him—and what he’s thinking when you do
• How to keep your friends and not lose your job
• How to avoid breakup pitfalls: IMing, stalking, having sex with your ex
• Reframing reality—seeing the relationship for what it was
• How to transform yourself into a hot, happening Superfox and get a jump on the better, brighter future that awaits
Complete with an essential workbook to help you put the crazy down on paper and not take it out into the world, It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken is a must-have manual for finding your way back to an even more rocking you.

He's Just Not That Into You
the six little words that changed dating forever
For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth may be he's just not that into you.
Based on a popular episode of Sex and the City, He's Just Not That Into You educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.
The newly expanded edition includes:
A new foreword by Greg
A new chapter providing an honest look at the stages of lifeafter He's Just Not That Into You, according to Liz: exaltation,loneliness, temptation, and balance
Greg's and Liz's answers to the most frequently asked questionsfrom readers 注：两种封面，随机发货。

A brilliantly witty and entertaining guide to interpreting men from the writers of Sex and the City. Fresh from helping Carrie and the gang with their dating dilemmas, they've given the rest of us a decoder ring to the men in our lives. But this book isn't just about eliminating the bad apples -- it's also about holding onto the good ones. / This hilarious, playful, but honest explanation of male behaviour from the writers of Sex and the City is designed to stop women wasting their time chasing after men who aren't into them, and help them to move on -- and find men who really are. / The wisdom of the book can be summed up by the following: men don't want to tell women when they're not interested -- and women don't want to hear it anyway. / The book's positive message: It happens to the most beautiful, funny, interesting and intelligent women and all it means is that it's time to say 'Next!' / Upfront and forthright, the book explains why the man you're waiting for might not be worth the wait -- or all your excuses. It's not that he's too busy, just got out of a relationship or scared of intimacy. / It discloses such tell-tale signs of a lack of interest as 'He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You,' or 'If He's Not Dating You,' 'If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk,' 'If He's Having Sex With Someone Else,' not to mention 'If He's Married.' / Practical advice: reveals how to interpret the 'mystery' signals men give off that are shouting the obvious. / Just like Berger on SATC, helpfully (and outrageously) informing Miranda of a guy she liked that "he's just not into you," this book will show you how to eliminate the no-hopers, and give you the confidence to move onto those who recognise how gorgeous you are!

Product Description
Everyone can use a daily wake-up call.
Now in bite-size mantras, the abridged empathetic wit and wisdom of the number one New York Times bestseller He's Just Not That Into You will recharge and inspire your dating outlook one wake-up call at a time.
For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth may be, He's just not that into you.
He's Just Not That Into You -- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. This book knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better

For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. "He's afraid to get hurt again.Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.Maybe he's intimidated by me.He just got out of a relationship."Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be "He's just not that into you."Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel. "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" -- based on a popular episode of "Sex and the City" -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them "enough," so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mind-sets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you.""HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe "He's just not that into you." And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.

Everyone can use a daily wake-up call. Now in bite-size mantras, the abridged empathetic wit and wisdom of the number one New York Times bestseller He's Just Not That Into You will recharge and inspire your dating outlook one wake-up call at a time. For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be, He's just not that into you. He's Just Not That Into You -- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. This book knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better

A fun and funny guide to dating from the New York Times bestselling authors of IT'S CALLED A BREAKUP BECAUSE IT'S BROKEN and HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. "The book is jam-packed with straight-talking tips on how to bag your man, and quite frankly, we can't put it down." -The Sun Why does dating have to be so hard? It doesn't! Stop trying to out-game the system and relax. IT'S JUST A F***ING DATE presents the tools, not the rules, for bringing back the art of the date. The ordeals of 21st century dating, from online dating and hooking up to pulling the plug when it isn't working, will soon be easy to navigate. With tips to define what is and isn't a date, how to get asked out, and setting your own dating standards, dating won't seem old-fashioned, it will be fun. Bestselling authors Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola return to the minefield of modern relationships with this revised and updated edition.

戀愛必勝的藍海策略！
【慾望城市顧問】葛瑞哥為妳量身打造
史上最強戀愛療癒守則！
本書重要書評
【奧蘭多衛報】：『從沒有讀過比本書更一針見血的兩性書籍！』
【出版家週刊】：『葛瑞哥的建議，坦白直率而又不會太嚴厲，必能再度贏得讀者的共鳴！』
【好書情報】：『作者活潑、俏皮又充滿正面鼓勵的話語，貫穿了這本熱情洋溢的指南， 《他其實沒那麼喜歡妳》的讀者將再次為本書瘋狂！』
【紐約郵報】：『妳會邊讀邊笑並感到安慰，因為本書讓妳知道，分手後另有春天。』
妳絕不是個對瑕疵品放不了手的女人，
不管是一輛車、一雙鞋或是一段愛情。
拋開已走味的『雞肋』，才會有全新的開始，
因為，妳值得擁有更好的他！
如果妳的『前』男友曾犯了下列罪行，
我們嚴禁妳為他尋找任何藉口！
他背著妳搞劈腿，他瞧不起妳，他曾對妳說謊，
他不時放妳鴿子，他有暴力傾向，他曾在公開場合對妳吼叫，
他有女朋友，他有男朋友，他和妳的朋友胡搞，
他從來不珍惜妳這個史上無敵大美女……
認清『他其實沒那麼喜歡妳』之後的下一步，
就是妳能不能鼓起勇氣和他說拜拜！
可是如果我只是想給他一點教訓呢？可是如果他call我怎麼辦？
可是與其逼我開口，為什麼他不直接對我提分手呢？
可是萬一已經沒有更適合我的好男人，要怎麼辦？……
妳可能還在一堆『可是』中掙扎，但葛瑞哥夫妻可不想再看到女人深陷在愛情的泥沼中，浪費了大好的青春時光，因此特別公開戀愛療癒法則，提供七大指令，讓妳徹底脫胎換骨成為戀愛必勝專家，重新贏得亮麗美好的愛情生活！
作者簡介
葛瑞哥．貝倫特（Greg Behrendt）
狂銷二百萬本的超級暢銷書《他其實沒那麼喜歡妳》的作者之一。喜劇演員，也是『慾望城市』連續三季的顧問。他在HBO和Comedy Central頻道的『傑?雷諾秀』、『大衛?賴特曼秀』及『柯南?歐布萊恩秀』等熱門脫口秀節目中的演出備受歡迎。目前和妻女定居洛杉磯。
愛米若．蘿特拉．貝倫特（Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt）
葛瑞哥的另一半，曾在音樂界任職唱片執行數年，現在則是全職母親兼作家。
譯者簡介
蔡惠民
曾任《柯夢波丹》雜誌國際中文版主編，兼職大陸瑞麗時尚先鋒《時尚捕手》專欄撰述、『星島日報』飲食版特約記者。現旅居美國舊金山灣區，專職享受生活、鑽研廚藝、走逛世界。著有《小領袖大胸襟》等童書，合著《女人要過好日子》，譯有《勾搭：女人的新樂子》、《32AA》、《愛情電話守則》等書。

He says: Oh sure, they say they're busy. They say that they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just that crazy. All lies. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialling, it is almost impossible not to call you. Sometimes I call people from my pants pocket when I don't even mean to. If I were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horribly busy day. Which would be a day that I would never be too busy to call you. She says: There is something great about knowing that my only job is to be as happy as I can be about my life and feel as good as I can about myself, and to lead as full and eventful life as I can, so that it doesn't ever feel like I'm just waiting around for some guy to ask me out. And most importantly, it's good for us all to remember that we don't need to scheme and plot, or beg anyone to ask us out. We're fantastic.