<p>I've been doing a lot of thinking around the nature of trust. I received the highly beneficial advice to think over who the most trustworthy people actually are, in my life. A diagram that looks like a bullseye was drawn, and I was invited to fill in actual names of people I know - where do they belong within the rings of the bullseye? The people in the middle are the most trustworthy, and the outermost rings are where the least trustworthy names go.</p><p>It was difficult to decide who's name belonged in which ring of the bullseye. So I assigned numbers to the rings of the bullseye. 1 was in the middle, 9 was right outside the bullseye. I then made a list of all the people I knew. I assigned them all numbers, then thought over the numbers, occasionally changing a number a little more or less.</p><p>When I was finished, I described the meaning of all the numbers, 1 through 9. This labeling made the most sense to me, to give more meaning to these numbers. Here they are:</p><p>1. Deep trust. Someone who totally accepts you as you are.</p><p>2. Someone who wouldn't betray you, has affinity with you, but you can't say they totally accept you as you are. They'd like to see you change.</p><p>3. A friend with a solid character, but affinity? Maybe.</p><p>4. A "fair-weather friend".</p><p>5. Any random stranger on the street. No positive or negative to speak of; still undefined and mysterious. No basis of judgement yet.</p><p>6. Negativity starts here, but it's very subtle and insidious; well hidden. Psychological predation and deception begins here. Plays mind games. Wants to come out looking better than you. Is certainly a "frenemy" or perhaps even worse, wants to turn you into a "flying monkey". A 6 has the mind of a perfect salesman or ambassador. Uses a lot of paltering; deceptive framing of everything. Plays on emotions a lot, seldom facts, unless they fit a narrative.</p><p>7. Corrupt. Has a mind of a racketeer.</p><p>8. Sketchy. Criminality begins here.</p><p>9. Predator. DANGEROUS</p><p><a href="/tags/friendship/" rel="tag">#friendship</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/spirituality/" rel="tag">#spirituality</a> <a href="/tags/trust/" rel="tag">#trust</a> <a href="/tags/selfcare/" rel="tag">#SelfCare</a></p>
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<p>un temps pour réparer</p><p>tag : tricot restauratif, <a href="/tags/art/" rel="tag">#art</a> <a href="/tags/repair/" rel="tag">#repair</a> <a href="/tags/diy/" rel="tag">#DIY</a> <a href="/tags/tech/" rel="tag">#tech</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/societe/" rel="tag">#societe</a> <a href="/tags/ecology/" rel="tag">#ecology</a></p>
<p>Listen to Your Sleeping Dreams! - Tuning In<br><a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/health/" rel="tag">#health</a> <a href="/tags/art/" rel="tag">#art</a> <a href="/tags/mentalhealth/" rel="tag">#MentalHealth</a> </p><p>So the lesson from my story is, listen to your dreams! What parts of you might you have left behind, things that make your heart sing and that help you connect to yourself and others? If you don’t know, but you nevertheless feel a kind of nagging emptiness in living that you can’t quite define, the clues you need may already be in your own dreams, if you can learn to listen.<br><a href="http://www.ajschuler.com/blog/listen-to-you-dreams" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.ajschuler.com/blog/listen-to-you-dreams"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.ajschuler.com/blog/listen-</span><span class="invisible">to-you-dreams</span></a></p>
<p>The Limitations of Professional Psychology - Tuning In</p><p>This is just an overview, a summary, of my thoughts from over three decades of study and practice in positive psychology to describe some limitations of contemporary professional psychology. What do you think? What have I missed? I’m eager for any comments, disagreements, or other perspectives.</p><p><a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#Psychology</a> <a href="/tags/mentalhealth/" rel="tag">#MentalHealth</a> <a href="/tags/healthcare/" rel="tag">#Healthcare</a> <a href="/tags/politics/" rel="tag">#Politics</a> <a href="/tags/culture/" rel="tag">#culture</a> </p><p><a href="http://www.ajschuler.com/blog/the-limitations-of-professional-psychology" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.ajschuler.com/blog/the-limitations-of-professional-psychology"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.ajschuler.com/blog/the-lim</span><span class="invisible">itations-of-professional-psychology</span></a></p>
<p>Helloooo! Let's try this <a href="/tags/introduction/" rel="tag">#introduction</a> <a href="/tags/mastodon/" rel="tag">#mastodon</a>.. <a href="/tags/newhere/" rel="tag">#newhere</a> <br>I'm Caroline from The Netherlands, have been eyeing all the beautiful <a href="/tags/photography/" rel="tag">#photography</a> accounts (amongst others) <br>Hope to connect on this platform!<br>Other interests: <a href="/tags/sleeptoken/" rel="tag">#sleeptoken</a> <a href="/tags/coffee/" rel="tag">#coffee</a> <a href="/tags/sarcasm/" rel="tag">#sarcasm</a> <a href="/tags/mentalhealth/" rel="tag">#mentalhealth</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/science/" rel="tag">#science</a> <a href="/tags/sciencefunfacts/" rel="tag">#sciencefunfacts</a> <a href="/tags/metalmusic/" rel="tag">#metalmusic</a> <a href="/tags/blues/" rel="tag">#blues</a> <a href="/tags/soul/" rel="tag">#soul</a> <a href="/tags/love/" rel="tag">#love</a> <a href="/tags/kindness/" rel="tag">#kindness</a> <a href="/tags/helpingothers/" rel="tag">#helpingothers</a> and so on</p><p>I'm not, in any way, shape or form a photographer but here are some shots 😆</p>
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<p>I have been thinking about this very thing and now here is Contrapoints on 'Daddy Politics' and cultural semantic metaphors. </p><p><a href="/tags/mustwatch/" rel="tag">#MustWatch</a> <a href="/tags/philosophy/" rel="tag">#philosophy</a> <a href="/tags/politics/" rel="tag">#politics</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> </p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x56kAvehyzk" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.youtube.com/watch?v=x56kAvehyzk"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.youtube.com/watch?v=x56kAv</span><span class="invisible">ehyzk</span></a></p>
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<p>Some of the data used by Cambridge Analytica highlighted gun owners’ most personal information, like: <br>• If they owned cats<br>• Whether they were dieting<br>• If they were recently divorced<br>• Their political opinions</p><p><a href="https://www.propublica.org/article/gun-owners-cambridge-analytica-data-psychological-profiles-privacy?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mastodon-post" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.propublica.org/article/gun-owners-cambridge-analytica-data-psychological-profiles-privacy?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mastodon-post"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.propublica.org/article/gun</span><span class="invisible">-owners-cambridge-analytica-data-psychological-profiles-privacy?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mastodon-post</span></a></p><p><a href="/tags/news/" rel="tag">#News</a> <a href="/tags/data/" rel="tag">#Data</a> <a href="/tags/privacy/" rel="tag">#Privacy</a> <a href="/tags/guns/" rel="tag">#Guns</a> <a href="/tags/technology/" rel="tag">#Technology</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#Psychology</a></p>
<p>I've noticed several of my friends and colleagues - even senior ones - scrolling immediately down when they open a web page, then not finding the info they are looking for or misinterpreting what they do find, all because they skipped the introduction.<br>Settings menus too.</p><p>I wonder what causes this?</p><p>cc <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a></p>
<p>🎮 Five winning games about communication announced: </p><p>▫️Non violent video games<br>▫️Games that teach young people about the importance of communication: conflict resolution; fact-sharing; healthy relationships<br>▫️Winning teams represent Argentina, Canada, France, and USA</p><p>From our nonprofit's 18th annual game design challenge. 🎉</p><p>🌐<a href="https://www.openpr.com/news/4202911/winners-announced-communication-video-games" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.openpr.com/news/4202911/winners-announced-communication-video-games"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.openpr.com/news/4202911/wi</span><span class="invisible">nners-announced-communication-video-games</span></a></p><p>[ Small instance; boosts appreciated. 🧡]</p><p><a href="/tags/nonprofit/" rel="tag">#nonprofit</a> <a href="/tags/videogames/" rel="tag">#videogames</a> <a href="/tags/communication/" rel="tag">#communication</a> <a href="/tags/publichealth/" rel="tag">#publichealth</a> <a href="/tags/media/" rel="tag">#media</a> <a href="/tags/mediastudies/" rel="tag">#mediastudies</a> <a href="/tags/indiedev/" rel="tag">#indiedev</a> <a href="/tags/education/" rel="tag">#education</a> <a href="/tags/sociology/" rel="tag">#sociology</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/students/" rel="tag">#students</a> <a href="/tags/digitalhumanities/" rel="tag">#digitalhumanities</a> <a href="/tags/changetheworld/" rel="tag">#changetheworld</a> <span class="h-card"><a href="https://games.ngo/@stopTDV" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>stopTDV</span></a></span> <span class="h-card"><a href="https://games.ngo/@gamingagainstv" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>gamingagainstv</span></a></span> <span class="h-card"><a href="https://games.ngo/@CommunicationGames" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>CommunicationGames</span></a></span> @communicationscholars</p>
<p>The <a href="/tags/ai/" rel="tag">#AI</a> companies are onto me!</p><p><a href="/tags/openai/" rel="tag">#OpenAI</a> recently automated the process of identifying tasks worthy of "slow" <a href="/tags/reasoning/" rel="tag">#reasoning</a>.</p><p>In "Strategic Reflectivism...", I showed how that's key to <a href="/tags/intelligence/" rel="tag">#intelligence</a> (human or machine).</p><p>Now available via audiopaper! 👉 <a href="https://byrdnick.com/archives/29788/upon-reflection-ep-16-strategic-reflectivism" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="byrdnick.com/archives/29788/upon-reflection-ep-16-strategic-reflectivism"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">byrdnick.com/archives/29788/up</span><span class="invisible">on-reflection-ep-16-strategic-reflectivism</span></a></p><p><a href="/tags/podcast/" rel="tag">#podcast</a> <a href="/tags/cogsci/" rel="tag">#cogSci</a> <a href="/tags/philsci/" rel="tag">#philSci</a> <a href="/tags/philmind/" rel="tag">#philMind</a> <a href="/tags/compsci/" rel="tag">#compSci</a> <a href="/tags/epistemology/" rel="tag">#epistemology</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/dualprocesstheory/" rel="tag">#dualProcessTheory</a></p>
<p>Next time you catch yourself saying: 'Fuck. That was stupid. Why did I do that?'</p><p>--- rewrite it: ---</p><p>'Fuck. That was thoughtless. Why did I do that?'</p><p>Then it becomes a problem you can work on vs. a reprimand from a shitty boss. </p><p>Be kind to yourself.</p><p><a href="/tags/kindness/" rel="tag">#kindness</a> <a href="/tags/selfcare/" rel="tag">#selfcare</a> <a href="/tags/health/" rel="tag">#health</a> <a href="/tags/mentalhealth/" rel="tag">#mentalhealth</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/science/" rel="tag">#science</a> <a href="/tags/alttext/" rel="tag">#alttext</a> <a href="/tags/art/" rel="tag">#art</a> <a href="/tags/photography/" rel="tag">#photography</a></p>
<p><a href="/tags/introduction/" rel="tag">#introduction</a><br>hejka, jestem Zosia 🤠 potrzebuję miejsca, żeby pisać sb rzeczy i czytać sb rzeczy. co czytać? co pisać?</p><p>załączam hasztagi: <br><a href="/tags/art/" rel="tag">#art</a> <a href="/tags/illustration/" rel="tag">#illustration</a> <a href="/tags/graphicdesign/" rel="tag">#graphicdesign</a> <a href="/tags/typography/" rel="tag">#typography</a> <a href="/tags/animation/" rel="tag">#animation</a> <a href="/tags/mograph/" rel="tag">#mograph</a> <a href="/tags/ecology/" rel="tag">#ecology</a> <a href="/tags/nature/" rel="tag">#nature</a> <a href="/tags/sociology/" rel="tag">#sociology</a> <a href="/tags/socialjustice/" rel="tag">#socialjustice</a> <a href="/tags/literature/" rel="tag">#literature</a> <a href="/tags/books/" rel="tag">#books</a> <a href="/tags/reading/" rel="tag">#reading</a> <a href="/tags/queer/" rel="tag">#queer</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a> <a href="/tags/neurodivergence/" rel="tag">#neurodivergence</a> <a href="/tags/fashion/" rel="tag">#fashion</a> <a href="/tags/thrifting/" rel="tag">#thrifting</a> <a href="/tags/fandom/" rel="tag">#fandom</a> <a href="/tags/histories/" rel="tag">#histories</a> <a href="/tags/diy/" rel="tag">#diy</a> <a href="/tags/food/" rel="tag">#food</a> <a href="/tags/cooking/" rel="tag">#cooking</a> <a href="/tags/baking/" rel="tag">#baking</a> <a href="/tags/maps/" rel="tag">#maps</a> <a href="/tags/geoguessr/" rel="tag">#geoguessr</a><br><a href="/tags/sztuka/" rel="tag">#sztuka</a> <a href="/tags/ilustracja/" rel="tag">#ilustracja</a> <a href="/tags/projektowanie/" rel="tag">#projektowanie</a> <a href="/tags/liternictwo/" rel="tag">#liternictwo</a> <a href="/tags/animacja/" rel="tag">#animacja</a> <a href="/tags/ekologia/" rel="tag">#ekologia</a> <a href="/tags/przyroda/" rel="tag">#przyroda</a> <a href="/tags/socjologia/" rel="tag">#socjologia</a> <a href="/tags/sprawiedliwoscspoleczna/" rel="tag">#sprawiedliwoscspoleczna</a> <a href="/tags/literatura/" rel="tag">#literatura</a> <a href="/tags/ksiazki/" rel="tag">#ksiazki</a> <a href="/tags/czytanie/" rel="tag">#czytanie</a> <a href="/tags/psychologia/" rel="tag">#psychologia</a> <a href="/tags/neuroroznorodnosc/" rel="tag">#neuroroznorodnosc</a> <a href="/tags/moda/" rel="tag">#moda</a> <a href="/tags/lumpiarstwo/" rel="tag">#lumpiarstwo</a> <a href="/tags/starocie/" rel="tag">#starocie</a> <a href="/tags/historia/" rel="tag">#historia</a> <a href="/tags/zrobtosam/" rel="tag">#zrobtosam</a> <a href="/tags/jedzenie/" rel="tag">#jedzenie</a> <a href="/tags/gotowanie/" rel="tag">#gotowanie</a> <a href="/tags/pieczenie/" rel="tag">#pieczenie</a> <a href="/tags/mapy/" rel="tag">#mapy</a></p>
<p>Veterans Who Depend on Mental Health Care Keep Losing Their Therapists Under Trump<br>---</p><p>Hundreds of mental health professionals have left the Department of Veterans Affairs since President Donald Trump took office, leaving staff “at a breaking point” and some veterans waiting as long as six months for help.<br><a href="https://www.propublica.org/article/veterans-affairs-mental-health-therapists-quit-trump?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mastodon-post" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.propublica.org/article/veterans-affairs-mental-health-therapists-quit-trump?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mastodon-post"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.propublica.org/article/vet</span><span class="invisible">erans-affairs-mental-health-therapists-quit-trump?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mastodon-post</span></a></p><p><a href="/tags/news/" rel="tag">#News</a> <a href="/tags/military/" rel="tag">#Military</a> <a href="/tags/army/" rel="tag">#Army</a> <a href="/tags/veterans/" rel="tag">#Veterans</a> <a href="/tags/mentalhealth/" rel="tag">#MentalHealth</a> <a href="/tags/ptsd/" rel="tag">#PTSD</a> <a href="/tags/health/" rel="tag">#Health</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#Psychology</a> <a href="/tags/psychiatry/" rel="tag">#Psychiatry</a> <a href="/tags/socialwork/" rel="tag">#SocialWork</a> <a href="/tags/trump/" rel="tag">#Trump</a></p>
<p>"OpenAI’s own data show that use of ChatGPT was pretty evenly split between work and personal cases in 2024, but by 2025, 73 percent of conversations with ChatGPT were personal, not for work."</p><p><a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/03/ai-friendship-chatbot/686345/?gift=IaTMqerMHTZL-ib0ALx6bVCqQpREXvmI4_jZ7t47BIM&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=share" rel="nofollow" class="ellipsis" title="www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/03/ai-friendship-chatbot/686345/?gift=IaTMqerMHTZL-ib0ALx6bVCqQpREXvmI4_jZ7t47BIM&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=share"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">www.theatlantic.com/family/202</span><span class="invisible">6/03/ai-friendship-chatbot/686345/?gift=IaTMqerMHTZL-ib0ALx6bVCqQpREXvmI4_jZ7t47BIM&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=share</span></a></p><p><a href="/tags/article/" rel="tag">#article</a> <a href="/tags/technology/" rel="tag">#technology</a> <a href="/tags/ai/" rel="tag">#AI</a> <a href="/tags/llms/" rel="tag">#LLMs</a> <a href="/tags/psychology/" rel="tag">#psychology</a></p>