人生
Emotional Intelligence Douban
author:
Daniel Goleman
publishing house:
Bantam
1997
- 6
Everyone knows that high IQ is no guarantee of success, happiness, or virtue, but until Emotional Intelligence, we could only guess why. Daniel Goleman's brilliant report from the frontiers of psychology and neuroscience offers startling new insight into our "two minds"--the rational and the emotional--and how they together shape our destiny.
Through vivid examples, Goleman delineates the five crucial skills of emotional intelligence, and shows how they determine our success in relationships, work, and even our physical well-being. What emerges is an entirely new way to talk about being smart.
The best news is that "emotional literacy" is not fixed early in life. Every parent, every teacher, every business leader, and everyone interested in a more civil society, has a stake in this compelling vision of human possibility.
Through vivid examples, Goleman delineates the five crucial skills of emotional intelligence, and shows how they determine our success in relationships, work, and even our physical well-being. What emerges is an entirely new way to talk about being smart.
The best news is that "emotional literacy" is not fixed early in life. Every parent, every teacher, every business leader, and everyone interested in a more civil society, has a stake in this compelling vision of human possibility.
The Old Barber (2006) Douban TMDB IMDb WikiData
剃头匠
other title:
剃头匠
/
胡同の理髪師
…
“Uncle Jing” is an old man of ninety-three who has been a barber for more than 80 years. He quietly lives on his own in the old areas of Peking which he gradually sees disappearing. Despite his age, he daily rides his bicycle to go and meet his old clients he shaves and plays cards with, while recounting the latest news and common memories. Once back home, he is obsessed with the old clock he owns since his birth, which is always 5 minutes slow. His main hope is that everyone, including himself, could leave this world the way he entered: clean and pure. He knows he may die any moment and peacefully gets ready with dignity, without disturbing anyone.
蒙田随笔全集(全三册) Douban
9.4 (7 ratings)
author:
[法国] 蒙田
translator:
潘丽珍 等
publishing house:
译林出版社
1996
《蒙田随笔全集》共107章,百万字左右。其中最著名的一篇为《为雷蒙·塞蓬德辩护》,充分表达了他的怀疑论的哲学思想。
蒙田以博学著称,在全集中,日常生活、传统习俗、人生哲理等等无所不谈,特别是旁证博引了许多古希腊罗马作家的论述。书中,作者还对自己作了大量的描写与剖析,使人读来有娓娓而谈的亲切之感,增加了作品的文学趣味。它是十六世纪各种思潮和各种知识经过分析的总汇,有“生活的哲学”之美称。书中语言平易通畅,不假雕饰,在法国散文史上占有重要地位,开创了随笔式作品之先河。
这部作品卷帙浩繁,用古法文写成,又引用了希腊、意大利等国的语言,以及大量拉丁语,因此翻译难度相当大。本社积累了组译出版《追忆似水年华》的成功经验,采用了蒙田死后于1595年经过增订的定本,于1993年开始组译,历经四年之久,分成三卷一次推出。这是蒙田随笔的第一个全译本,参与该书的译者都是研究和翻译法国文学富有经验的学者,为译出蒙田随笔特有的思想火花和语言魅力,各位译者都付出了巨大的努力,翻译态度是极为严谨的,读者可以从中真实地窥见到蒙田的思想、风格及他所生活的时代的风俗民情蒙田在文中论述的有些观点也许未必正确,但读者可以从随笔的总体上吸收他的思想和艺术精华,并收到启智怡情的功效。
蒙田以博学著称,在全集中,日常生活、传统习俗、人生哲理等等无所不谈,特别是旁证博引了许多古希腊罗马作家的论述。书中,作者还对自己作了大量的描写与剖析,使人读来有娓娓而谈的亲切之感,增加了作品的文学趣味。它是十六世纪各种思潮和各种知识经过分析的总汇,有“生活的哲学”之美称。书中语言平易通畅,不假雕饰,在法国散文史上占有重要地位,开创了随笔式作品之先河。
这部作品卷帙浩繁,用古法文写成,又引用了希腊、意大利等国的语言,以及大量拉丁语,因此翻译难度相当大。本社积累了组译出版《追忆似水年华》的成功经验,采用了蒙田死后于1595年经过增订的定本,于1993年开始组译,历经四年之久,分成三卷一次推出。这是蒙田随笔的第一个全译本,参与该书的译者都是研究和翻译法国文学富有经验的学者,为译出蒙田随笔特有的思想火花和语言魅力,各位译者都付出了巨大的努力,翻译态度是极为严谨的,读者可以从中真实地窥见到蒙田的思想、风格及他所生活的时代的风俗民情蒙田在文中论述的有些观点也许未必正确,但读者可以从随笔的总体上吸收他的思想和艺术精华,并收到启智怡情的功效。
The Wolf Children Ame and Yuki (2012) Bangumi Douban TMDB Min reol WikiData Skybridge IMDb
おおかみこどもの雨と雪
other title:
狼的孩子雨和雪
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おおかみこどもの雨と雪
…
After her werewolf lover unexpectedly dies in an accident, a woman must find a way to raise the son and daughter that she had with him. However, their inheritance of their father's traits prove to be a challenge for her.
Painting as a Pastime Douban
author:
Churchill, Winston, Sir, 1874-1965.
publishing house:
London : Odhams Press, 1948.
1948
A gifted American psychologist has said, ‘Worry is a spasm of the emotion; the mind catches hold of something and will not let it go.’ It is useless to argue with the mind in this condition. The stronger the will, the futile the task. One can only gently insinuate something else into its convulsive grasp. And if this something else is rightly chosen, if it is really attended by the illumination of another field of interest, gradually, and often quite swiftly, the old undue grip relaxes and the process of recuperation and repair begins.
The cultivation of a hobby and new forms of interest is therefore a policy of first importance to a public man. But this is not a business that can be undertaken in a day or swiftly improvised by a mere command of the will. The growth of alternative mental interests is a long process. The seeds must be carefully chosen; they must fall on good ground; they must be sedulously tended, if the vivifying fruits are to be at hand when needed.
To be really happy and really safe, one ought to have at least two or three hobbies, and they must all be real. It is no use starting late in life to say: ‘I will take an interest in this or that.’ Such an attempt only aggravates the strain of mental effort. A man may acquire great knowledge of topics unconnected with his daily work, and yet hardly get any benefit or relief. It is no use doing what you like; you have got to like what you do. Broadly speaking, human beings may be divided into three classes: those who are toiled to death, those who are worried to death, and those who are bored to death. It is no use offering the manual labourer, tired out with a hard week’s sweat and effort, the chance of playing a game of football or baseball on Saturday afternoon. It is no use inviting the politician or the professional or business man, who has been working or worrying about serious things for six days, to work or worry about trifling things at the week-end.
As for the unfortunate people who can command everything they want, who can gratify every caprice and lay their hands on almost every object of desire – for them a new pleasure, a new excitement is only an additional satiation. In vain they rush frantically round from place to place, trying to escape from avenging boredom by mere clatter and motion. For them discipline in one form or another is the most hopeful path.
It may be said that rational, industrious, useful human beings are divided into two classes: first, those whose work is work and whose pleasure is pleasure; and secondly, those whose work and pleasure are one. Of these the former are the majority. They have their compensations. The long hours in the office of the factory bring with them as their reward, not only the means of sustenance, but a keen appetite for pleasure even in its simplest and most modest forms. But Fortune’s favoured children belong to the second class. Their life is a natural harmony. For them the working hours are never long enough. Each day is a holiday, and ordinary holidays when they come are grudged as enforced interruptions in an absorbing vocation. Yet to both classes the need of an alternative outlook, of a change of atmosphere, of a diversion of effort, is essential. Indeed, it may well be that those whose work is their pleasure are those who most need the means of banishing it at intervals from their minds.
The cultivation of a hobby and new forms of interest is therefore a policy of first importance to a public man. But this is not a business that can be undertaken in a day or swiftly improvised by a mere command of the will. The growth of alternative mental interests is a long process. The seeds must be carefully chosen; they must fall on good ground; they must be sedulously tended, if the vivifying fruits are to be at hand when needed.
To be really happy and really safe, one ought to have at least two or three hobbies, and they must all be real. It is no use starting late in life to say: ‘I will take an interest in this or that.’ Such an attempt only aggravates the strain of mental effort. A man may acquire great knowledge of topics unconnected with his daily work, and yet hardly get any benefit or relief. It is no use doing what you like; you have got to like what you do. Broadly speaking, human beings may be divided into three classes: those who are toiled to death, those who are worried to death, and those who are bored to death. It is no use offering the manual labourer, tired out with a hard week’s sweat and effort, the chance of playing a game of football or baseball on Saturday afternoon. It is no use inviting the politician or the professional or business man, who has been working or worrying about serious things for six days, to work or worry about trifling things at the week-end.
As for the unfortunate people who can command everything they want, who can gratify every caprice and lay their hands on almost every object of desire – for them a new pleasure, a new excitement is only an additional satiation. In vain they rush frantically round from place to place, trying to escape from avenging boredom by mere clatter and motion. For them discipline in one form or another is the most hopeful path.
It may be said that rational, industrious, useful human beings are divided into two classes: first, those whose work is work and whose pleasure is pleasure; and secondly, those whose work and pleasure are one. Of these the former are the majority. They have their compensations. The long hours in the office of the factory bring with them as their reward, not only the means of sustenance, but a keen appetite for pleasure even in its simplest and most modest forms. But Fortune’s favoured children belong to the second class. Their life is a natural harmony. For them the working hours are never long enough. Each day is a holiday, and ordinary holidays when they come are grudged as enforced interruptions in an absorbing vocation. Yet to both classes the need of an alternative outlook, of a change of atmosphere, of a diversion of effort, is essential. Indeed, it may well be that those whose work is their pleasure are those who most need the means of banishing it at intervals from their minds.
Botchan (2016) Douban TMDB IMDb
坊っちゃん
other title:
少爷
/
坊っちゃん
…
Botchan (Kazunari Ninomiya) has sense of strong justice and does not lie. He is offered a teaching job at a middle in a small village far away from his hometown of Tokyo. Botchan accepts the position and begins to work as a math teacher. The assistant principle there wields absolute power. Botchan has a hard time dealing with his fellow teachers and the students.
德米安 Douban
Demian: die geschichte von emil sinclairs jugend
8.7 (281 ratings)
author:
[德] 赫尔曼·黑塞
translator:
丁君君
/
谢莹莹
publishing house:
上海人民出版社
2009
- 3
《德米安:埃米尔·辛克莱的彷徨少年时》是黑塞的代表作之一,讲述少年辛克莱寻找通向自身之路的艰辛历程。出生并成长于“光明世界”的辛克莱,偶然发现截然不同的“另一个世界”,那里的纷乱和黑暗,使他焦虑困惑,并陷入谎言带来的灾难之中。这时,一个名叫德米安的少年出现,将他带出沼泽地,从此他开始走向孤独寻找自我的前路。之后的若干年,“德米安”以不同的身份面目出现,在他每一次孤独寻找、艰难抉择的时候,成为他的引路人……
平如美棠 Douban
8.7 (130 ratings)
author:
饶平如
publishing house:
广西师范大学出版社
2013
- 5
这是饶平如一生的故事。
他不是一个想打仗的人,但他还是义无反顾去打仗了。又因为和美棠在一起,他最终厌倦了战争,想要回家。
六十年的相守历尽坎坷,命运让他们长久分离。好容易最后又在一起了,美棠却身患重病且渐渐失去记忆。
平如推掉了所有工作,全身心照顾妻子。每天5点起床,给她梳头、洗脸、烧饭、做腹部透析,每天4次,消毒、口罩、接管、接倒腹水、还要打胰岛素、做纪录,他不放心别人帮。
美棠在病痛中渐渐不再配合,不时动手拔身上的管子。耳朵不好,看字也不清楚了,平如就画这画劝她不要拉管子,但画也不管用,只能晚上不睡一整夜看着她,毕竟岁数大了,不能每天如此,还是只能绑住她的手。“她叫‘别绑我’,我听到很难过,怎么办……很痛苦。”
美棠犯糊涂越来越严重,有一天称丈夫将自己的孙女藏了起来,不让她见,平如怎么说她都不信。他已经八十多岁,坐在地上,嚎啕大哭。
她看着他哭,像看不见一样。
他们一生坎坷,到了暮年才有一个安定的居所,但是老病相催,她却已经到了生命的尽头。
当美棠最终离开后,平如画下了他和美棠的故事,留下了关于她和他们的最美好的回忆。
柴静曾在节目中问老爷爷:“您已经90岁了。难道这么长时间,没有把这个东西磨平了,磨淡了?”老爷爷回答说:“磨平?怎么讲能磨的平呢?爱这个世界是很久的,这个是永远的事情。”
老爷爷还说:如果能够年光倒流的话,我宁愿再回到从前那一段比较艰苦的时代,两个人相守。
这是普通人自己的故事。
只有如此平凡而美好的东西才能拥有长久的感动力量!
他不是一个想打仗的人,但他还是义无反顾去打仗了。又因为和美棠在一起,他最终厌倦了战争,想要回家。
六十年的相守历尽坎坷,命运让他们长久分离。好容易最后又在一起了,美棠却身患重病且渐渐失去记忆。
平如推掉了所有工作,全身心照顾妻子。每天5点起床,给她梳头、洗脸、烧饭、做腹部透析,每天4次,消毒、口罩、接管、接倒腹水、还要打胰岛素、做纪录,他不放心别人帮。
美棠在病痛中渐渐不再配合,不时动手拔身上的管子。耳朵不好,看字也不清楚了,平如就画这画劝她不要拉管子,但画也不管用,只能晚上不睡一整夜看着她,毕竟岁数大了,不能每天如此,还是只能绑住她的手。“她叫‘别绑我’,我听到很难过,怎么办……很痛苦。”
美棠犯糊涂越来越严重,有一天称丈夫将自己的孙女藏了起来,不让她见,平如怎么说她都不信。他已经八十多岁,坐在地上,嚎啕大哭。
她看着他哭,像看不见一样。
他们一生坎坷,到了暮年才有一个安定的居所,但是老病相催,她却已经到了生命的尽头。
当美棠最终离开后,平如画下了他和美棠的故事,留下了关于她和他们的最美好的回忆。
柴静曾在节目中问老爷爷:“您已经90岁了。难道这么长时间,没有把这个东西磨平了,磨淡了?”老爷爷回答说:“磨平?怎么讲能磨的平呢?爱这个世界是很久的,这个是永远的事情。”
老爷爷还说:如果能够年光倒流的话,我宁愿再回到从前那一段比较艰苦的时代,两个人相守。
这是普通人自己的故事。
只有如此平凡而美好的东西才能拥有长久的感动力量!
Intouchables (2011) Douban IMDb TMDB Min reol Eggplant.place WikiData
IntouchablesKolmogorov in Perspective (History of Mathematics, V. 20) Douban
author:
Andrei Nikolaevich Kolmogorov
/
A. N. Shiryaev
publishing house:
American Mathematical Society
2000
- 9
This book, Kolmogorov in Perspective, includes articles written by Kolmogorov's students and colleagues and his personal accounts of shared experiences and lifelong mathematical friendships. Specifically, the article, "Andrei Nikolaevich Kolmogorov. A Biographical Sketch of His Life and Creative Paths" by A. N. Shiryaev, gives an excellent personal and scientific biography of Kolmogorov. The volume also includes the following articles: "On A. N. Kolmogorov" by V. I. Arnol'd, "In Memory of A. N. Kolmogorov" by S. M. Nikol'skii, "Remembrances of A. N. Kolmogorov" by Ya. G. Sinai, "The Influence of Andrei Nikolaevich Kolmogorov on My Life" by P. L. Ul'yanov, "A Few Words on A. N. Kolmogorov" by P. S. Aleksandrov, "Memories of P. S. Aleksandrov" by A. N. Kolmogorov, "Newton and Contemporary Mathematical Thought" by A. N. Kolmogorov, and an extensive bibliography with the complete list of Kolmogorov's works--including the articles written for encyclopedias and newspapers. The book is illustrated with photographs and includes quotations from Kolmogorov's letters and conversations, uniquely reflecting his mathematical tastes and opinions.