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Alvin and the Chipmunks (2007) IMDb Douban TMDB WikiData
Alvin and the Chipmunks
6.9 (175 ratings) director: 蒂姆·希尔 actor: 杰森·李 / 大卫·克罗斯
other title: 앨빈과 슈퍼밴드 / アルビン/歌うシマリス3兄弟
A struggling songwriter named Dave Seville finds success when he comes across a trio of singing chipmunks: mischievous leader Alvin, brainy Simon, and chubby, impressionable Theodore.
March 4, 2023 watched
典型的好莱坞家庭温情片,乏善可陈。只不过三只小花栗鼠实在太可爱了!
动画片 欧美商业片 美国
Stoker (2013) IMDb Douban Min reol TMDB WikiData
Stoker
7.6 (455 ratings) director: 朴赞郁 actor: 米娅·华希科沃斯卡 / 妮可·基德曼
other title: 스토커 / イノセント・ガーデン
After India Stoker's father dies, her Uncle Charlie, who she never knew existed, comes to live with her and her unstable mother. She comes to suspect this mysterious, charming man has ulterior motives and becomes increasingly infatuated with him.
Nov. 21, 2022 watched
在人物刻画上变态而深刻,视觉效果诡异且艳丽。真正去用摄影机讲故事,以画面推进情节,淡化对白并留给观众观察和思考的空间,是朴赞郁一直以来的优点。他的电影从来不会令人失望。内心的自由感仍然是观众会获得的主要观感:冷血杀手的自由也是自由。假如不是受委托拍摄这样一部美国商业片,本片绝对不会是现在这样的100分钟时长,导演会有更多在纵深轴上塑造人物的可能性。
朴赞郁 美国 欧美商业片
Being a Character Douban
author: Christopher Bollas publishing house: Routledge 2003 - 7
Each person invests many of the objects in his life with his or her own unconscious meaning, each person subsequently voyages through an environment that constantly evokes the self's psychic history. Taking Freud's model of dreamwork as a model for all unconscious thinking, Christopher Bollas argues that we dreamwork ourselves into becoming who we are, and illustrates how the analyst and the patient use such unconscious processes to develop new psychic structures that the patient can use to alter his or her self experience. Building on this foundation, he goes on to describe some very special forms of self experience, including the tragic madness of women cutting themselves, the experience of a cruising homosexual in bars and bathes and the demented ferocity of the facist state of mind. An original interpreter of classical theory and clinical issues, in Being a Character Christopher Bollas takes the reader into the very texture of the psychoanalytic process.
Freud And Beyond Douban
author: Stephen A. Mitchell / Margaret J. Black publishing house: Basic Books 2016 - 5
Freud's concepts have become a part of our psychological vocabulary: unconscious thoughts and feelings, conflict, the meaning of dreams, the sensuality of childhood. But psychoanalytic thinking has undergone an enormous expansion and transformation over the past fifty years. With Freud and Beyond, Stephen A. Mitchell and Margaret J. Black make contemporary psychoanalytic thinking—the body of work that has been done since Freud—available for the first time. Richly illustrated with case examples, this lively, jargon-free introduction makes modern psychoanalytic thought accessible at last.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone Douban Goodreads Google Books
9.0 (45 ratings) author: Lori Gottlieb publishing house: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt 2019 - 4
One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.
With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.
My First Classical Music Book Douban
author: Helsby, Genevieve/ Chapman, Jason (ILT) 2009 - 2
This is a delightfully colourful introduction to classical music, aimed to fire the imagination of young children aged 5-7 years. Readers are asked to think about the different places in which we might hear music, whether it is in a concert hall, or just on television. They are then introduced to a selection of famous composers including Mozart and Beethoven, and learn about each of the musical instrument families, from woodwind to percussion. Throughout the book children are referred to the accompanying CD so that they can hear examples as they read. Music on the CD includes Mozart's "Magic Flute", Williams' "Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone", Saint-Saens' "Carnival of the Animals", Holst's "Planets", Stravinsky's "Petrushka" and Prokofiev's "Peter and the Wolf".
Sept. 28, 2022 read
【2022年已读055】这本和上次推荐的My First Orchestra Book一样都是令胖丹爱不释手的儿童古典乐入门书。我也跟着很是享受。
艺术 美国 契丹看世界
My First Orchestra Book Douban
author: Genevieve Helsby publishing house: Naxos Books 2014 - 3
Sept. 17, 2022 read
【2022年已读053】上次在露天音乐会上买的书,每天和胖丹一起翻阅。以绘画图示的方式为儿童讲解交响乐队里的各种乐器,并附有一张古典乐CD,每一曲都是相应乐器的华彩段落。孩子看得爱不释手,强烈推荐。
美国 艺术 契丹看世界
Becoming Myself Douban
Becoming Myself: A Psychiatrist's Memoir
author: Irvin D. Yalom publishing house: Basic Books 2017 - 10
Irvin D. Yalom has made a career of investigating the lives of others. In this profound memoir, he turns his writing and his therapeutic eye on himself. He opens his story with a nightmare: He is twelve, and is riding his bike past the home of an acne-scarred girl. Like every morning, he calls out, hoping to befriend her, "Hello Measles!" But in his dream, the girl's father makes Yalom understand that his daily greeting had hurt her. For Yalom, this was the birth of empathy; he would not forget the lesson. As Becoming Myself unfolds, we see the birth of the insightful thinker whose books have been a beacon to so many. This is not simply a man's life story, Yalom's reflections on his life and development are an invitation for us to reflect on the origins of our own selves and the meanings of our lives.
Sept. 15, 2022 read
【2022年已读052】不是每个作家都擅长叙写自己,并且在描写自己的人生时,作家一定会暴露出思想和世界观方面的短板。亚隆的传记不如他的长篇小说那般凝练、吸引人,甚至当他采用对话体让“亚隆医生”去和年轻时的自己谈论人生困境时,显得并不那么能直面自己的痛苦。而把自己与父母之间的冲突仅仅放置在经典美国现代叙事的父子关系框架中去谈,真是令我这样曾深深崇拜亚隆的读者难以接受。读这本书,我的最大收获是又一次了解到,要不断地走出去,才能成为自己;亚隆谈自己与家人一起遍历欧亚、在各种机构访学、写作的经历,是我比较喜欢的部分。
回忆录 美国 心理治疗
Shrek (2001) TMDB Douban Min reol IMDb Skybridge WikiData
Shrek
7.8 (568 ratings) director: 安德鲁·亚当森 / 维基·詹森 actor: 麦克·梅尔斯 / 艾迪·墨菲
other title: 怪物史瑞克 / 史力加(港)
It ain't easy bein' green -- especially if you're a likable (albeit smelly) ogre named Shrek. On a mission to retrieve a gorgeous princess from the clutches of a fire-breathing dragon, Shrek teams up with an unlikely compatriot -- a wisecracking donkey.
July 20, 2022 watched
附近的艺术院线把这部片子作为经典电影推出。带着胖丹初探北美影院,放映厅里座无虚席,满场观众跟着说台词、唱插曲,令人叹为观止。
美国 欧美商业片 动画片
Why Buddhism is True Douban Open Library
8.8 (16 ratings) author: Robert Wright publishing house: Simon & Schuster 2017 - 8 other title: Why Buddhism Is True
Why Buddhism is True: The Science and Philosophy of Meditation and Enlightenment is a 2017 book by journalist and evolutionary psychologist Robert Wright. As of August 2017, the book had peaked at The New York Times No. 4 bestseller in hardcover nonfiction.
In Why Buddhism is True, Wright advocates a secular, Westernized form of Buddhism focusing on the practice of mindfulness meditation and stripped of supernatural beliefs such as reincarnation. He further argues that more widespread practice of meditation could lead to a more reflective and empathetic population and reduce political tribalism. In line with his background, Wright draws heavily on evolutionary biology and evolutionary psychology to defend the correctness of Buddhism's diagnosis of the causes of human suffering. He argues the modern psychological idea of the modularity of mind resonates with the Buddhist teaching of no-self (anatman).
July 1, 2022 read
【2022年已读038】写得啰里啰嗦的,而且西方人谈以“正念”思想来指导生活的书已经够多了,不缺这一本。真对这些内容感兴趣,不如直接诵读佛经和参考当代高僧大德们的说法,比西方作者们故作姿态地对佛教信仰中的超自然内容避之不谈以显示自己的“科学性”强多了也令人感觉亲切多了。但本书仍然有个优点,就是它以多数人能接受的方式涉及了“无我”这一通常会令西方人闻之色变(真的是闻之色变,我的亲身经历;它似乎对个人至上的西方人会造成存在性的巨大冲击)的大乘佛法核心概念。
【2017/12/13想读】今天被一个病人在团体治疗中机关枪般地向我责问了好几分钟为什么医院里要讲来自佛教理念的mindfulness后摔门而去,根本让我插不进话,简直目瞪口呆。然后一个经历过类似场面的治疗师在安慰我过后给我推荐了这本书,说里面有不少实证内容。
美国 哲学 心理治疗
普宁 Douban
Pnin
8.6 (5 ratings) author: [美国] 弗拉基米尔·纳博科夫 translator: 梅绍武 publishing house: 上海译文出版社 1981 - 6
《普宁》是纳博科夫继《洛丽塔》之后的第二部以美国为背景的小说。小说起始于在美国大学教书的俄国老教授普宁的一次出门旅行,他乘错了车,不得已在中途换车。在颠簸之中,疲劳“像一股浪潮那样突然淹没了他头重脚轻的身体,把他同现实隔离开来”。 (注:Vladimir Nabokov,Pnin,in The Portable Nabokov,Page Stegner ed.(London:Penguin Books Ltd.,1982),p.372.)这是普宁特有的一种怪异感觉,他曾经感受过多次,而且每当这种感觉来临,普宁的眼前都会栩栩如生地出现他过去生活中的一些情形。事实上,不难看出,当这种现象产生时,普宁正处于一种幻觉之中。常人的幻觉应该是这样的:在一种混乱无序的心理状态中,不在眼前的事物出现在眼前。普宁的幻觉与常人的幻觉稍有不同,他幻觉中的事物都来自于他过去的生活,或者与他过去的生活紧密相关。
普宁的幻觉中常出现他在圣·彼得堡度过的早年生活。他出身于名医之家,父亲母亲都疼爱他。他有很多好朋友,后来他们有些人在革命中被杀害了。米拉在普宁的早年生活中占据了重要一席,她是他父亲最好的朋友的女儿,是普宁的初恋对象,他们从小在一起长大、相亲相爱。很多年以后,普宁“在鲜明的幻觉中”,“重新又成了当年那个笨拙、羞怯而又固执的18岁男孩,在黑暗中等待米拉……(他)觉得米拉正偷偷从那里溜到花园向他走来,在高高的烟草丛里,她白色的上衣和烟草暗白的花混杂在一起。”(注:Vladimir Nabokov, Pnin, in ThePortable Nabokov, Page Stegner ed.(London:Penguin Books Ltd.,1982),p.464.)普宁在幻觉中感受到的不仅有往事的甜蜜, 也有往事的忧伤。米拉后来被德国人杀害于大爱特斯堡,因为她是犹太人。
普宁的幻觉中还有他过去的婚姻生活。那时普宁在巴黎,是个年轻有为的学者,他爱上了同是俄国流亡者的丽莎。丽莎自私、浅薄、好卖弄,但普宁偏偏爱上了她,而且非常珍惜自己的感情,后来他们结了婚。他们的婚姻未能维持长久,丽莎很快就移情别恋,喜欢上一个叫埃里克·温德的大夫。普宁很爽快地与丽莎离了婚。然而,在普宁准备移民美国之前,丽莎带着七个月的身孕回到了普宁身边。事实上,丽莎并非真地想回到普宁身边,她不过是想借助普宁前往美国。这一切在驶往美国的轮船上得到了公开,普宁知道了丽莎的“阴谋”。尽管如此,普宁并没有产生对丽莎的恨意,在洞察她的那些行为动因之时,普宁仍对丽莎怀有某种说不清楚的感情。
普宁的幻觉中还有那些他一日活着就一日割舍不开的事物,其中对他影响最深的是俄罗斯语言和文化。对于他来说,“如果说他的俄语是音乐,他的英语就是谋杀。”(注:Vladimir Nabokov,Pnin, in ThePortable Nabokov,Page Stegner ed.(London: Penguin Books Ltd.,1982),pp.409—410. )普宁在给美国学生讲授俄罗斯文学的时候,往往忘了他授课的对象——那些既不熟悉俄罗斯方言土语,也不具备丰富的文学见识的年轻人,自己陶醉在他曾经体验过的美妙境地里。普宁的一个美国女学生喜欢他,但他对她的感情很特别,他似乎并不喜欢她本人,只是因为她喜欢俄罗斯语言文学,普宁才有点喜欢她。普宁对俄罗斯语言文化的深入了解也促成了原先看不起他的克里门茨教授与他的友谊。
普宁自己并不是很清楚为什么总出现那些幻觉,但读者却并不难发现普宁潜意识里的那些想法。尽管已经在美国生活了很多年,普宁却未能真正适应美国的生活,他始终留恋着过去的日子。过去并不完全美好,但在那种生活里普宁是“主角”之一,他有自己的痛苦和欢愉。然而,在美国背景下,普宁是一个外来者,只有少数人对他友善,大多数人都看不起他,他的情感是虚茫的,他宁可溜进那保留着过去影踪的幻觉,而不愿意直面现实。他根本的目的还在于通过幻觉来战胜时间,以便超越现在、回归过去的世界。
普宁当然不能成功,因为时间之狱不可突破,美国背景下的现实生活在按照它自身的逻辑向前发展。米拉不可能重现,现在的丽莎比过去的丽莎更自私,很少有人能体会到他对俄罗斯语言文化的热爱。更重要的是,普宁沉缅于幻想、不去面对现实的做法危及到了他在温代尔的生存,最终他不得不卷铺盖走人。从根本上说,他不可能冲破现在的重围、实现他的梦想,因为他脚下还是现实的土壤,他受到了时间的束缚。
——王卫东【论纳博科夫的时间观】
June 8, 2022 read
大三,补标,很诙谐有趣的写学院中人生活的小说。这几天想起它是由于肩膀疼导致睡觉翻身困难,每回辗转反侧时都想起纳博科夫描写普宁失眠的那句“他恨不能身上长出个第三面来”。这句话我记了二十年,现在自己也有年纪了,算是真懂了这是什么滋味。
文学 外国文学 小说 美国
Everything Everywhere All at Once (2022) IMDb YetiWatch Min reol Douban Bangumi WikiData TMDB Skybridge
Everything Everywhere All at Once
7.9 (2347 ratings) director: 丹·关 / 丹尼尔·施纳特 actor: 杨紫琼 / 斯蒂芬妮·许
other title: 瞬息全宇宙 / 妈的多重宇宙
An aging Chinese immigrant is swept up in an insane adventure, where she alone can save what's important to her by connecting with the lives she could have led in other universes.
May 30, 2022 watched
一部令我的眼睛、耳朵和大脑都感觉受到过度刺激的电影。主流社会道德的鸡汤,似乎不被包装成这样一部充满声光电刺激的作品,就没法再灌入当今观众的缺乏长期注意力的头脑和几乎已在各种强刺激中麻木掉的视觉与听觉。与overwhelming至极的视听符号相对应的,则是极其贫乏且俗套的叙事能力,况且影片所采用的隐喻符号,常常都是恶俗并“审丑”式的。想知道用一个面包圈能如何讲好人生道理?建议编导可以看看Dr. Mark Epstein在《Trauma of Everyday Life》一书中是如何做到的。跟我一起去影院的女儿看得很开心很感动,但我真的很悲观也很感慨,因为这部电影和其他好莱坞大片一起代表着他们Gen-Z一代美国年轻人所面对的贫瘠而单向度的视觉文化。
美国 欧美商业片
Blue Velvet (1986) Douban TMDB Skybridge IMDb WikiData
Blue Velvet
7.5 (251 ratings) director: 大卫·林奇 actor: 伊莎贝拉·罗塞里尼 / 凯尔·麦克拉克兰
other title: 블루 벨벳 / ブルーベルベット
Clean-cut Jeffrey Beaumont realizes his hometown is not so normal when he discovers a human ear in a field, the investigation soon catapulting him toward a disturbed nightclub singer and a drug-addicted sadist.
Fassbinder Film Maker Douban
author: Ronald Hayman publishing house: Simon & Schuster 1984 - 11
April 23, 2022 read
【2022年已读031】这本书的中译即是《法斯宾德的世界》。英文版虽然有一些小的编校错误,整体上是一本可读性很强的艺术家评传。我最喜欢的是梳理法胖作品中关于爱、焦虑、愤怒、压迫及战后德国社会批判等主题的那一章,以及结合法胖生平讨论贯穿了其人生和作品的sado-masochism的几个章节。该书内容验证了之前看电影时的许多感受,比如导演对观众的、给双方都同时带来痛苦和愉悦的“强暴”感,还有法胖对边缘个体的关注并如何通过对边缘人的刻画而抵达了普遍性和共通性。
人物传记 美国 电影之书 电影研究 法斯宾德
Memory's Eyes Douban
author: Schmidt-Hellerau, Cordelia publishing house: Ipbooks 2020 - 8
MEMORY'S EYES is a contemporary New York Oedipus novel. It is written for readers who enjoy playing with concepts and storylines, here namely the classical Oedipus myth, Sophocles' three Theban plays, the psychoanalytical concept of the Oedipus complex, and its pop-cultural adaptations in cartoons and jokes. Tragic and funny, playful, but also challenging, readers will find themselves simultaneously knowing and not knowing, anticipating and surprised by how the truth slowly emerges.
April 3, 2022 read
【2022年已读025】作者并非专业作家,注定了这部小说不会进入很多人的视野。写作风格也决定了这不是一本容易阅读的书:起始的诙谐与讽刺,到了中段演变成不知故事将走向哪里的似乎失控的感觉,再到最终篇章里高潮迭起的人性揭秘,层层叠叠的叙事非常考验读者的耐心。作者在一月份的座谈会上说:写这本书是为了以艺术表达的方式告诉年轻的精神分析同行,今天我们为什么仍要谈论“俄狄浦斯情结”。以可信的故事在当代背景下重新叙写一个离奇的古希腊戏剧脚本,不由得令读者想到,几千年来大同小异的只是情节的外壳,而一直没变的是人生与人性的悲剧本质。
文学 英语文学 美国 外国文学 小说
Attachment in Psychotherapy Douban
author: David J. Wallin PhD publishing house: The Guilford Press 2015 - 4
Feb. 24, 2022 read
【2022年已读015】五年前就买了这本书,最近才因为上一个依恋理论的课把它看了。作者写得非常清晰易读,针对不同依恋风格的病人所造成的差异化的人际模式以及移情关系所给出的临床建议也非常具有可操作性。实在是一本可以摆在案头用来常常参考的宝典,我都后悔当时没有买不易磨损的精装本。
心理治疗 美国
My Dinner with Andre (1981) Douban IMDb TMDB WikiData
My Dinner with Andre
8.2 (63 ratings) director: 路易·马勒 actor: 华莱士·肖恩 / 安德烈·格雷戈里
other title: 与安德烈晚餐 / 与安德雷共进晚餐
Wally, a struggling playwright and actor, reluctantly agrees to catch up with his old friend Andre, a theater director who disappeared several years prior in order to travel the world. Meeting at a posh Manhattan restaurant, the two share life stories, anecdotes and philosophical musings over the course of an evening meal.
Feb. 6, 2022 watched
一场触及某些根本的存在性问题的思辩晚餐,前面全是铺垫,最后三四十分钟开始逐渐点题,戏剧、人生、婚姻等话题一一与存在性挂钩。
Louis_Malle 美国经典电影 美国