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Denial Douban
author: Jessica Stern publishing house: ECCO Press 2010 - 6
"I have listened and I have been quiet all my life. But now I will speak." One of the world's foremost experts on terrorism and post-traumatic stress disorder investigates her own unsolved adolescent sexual assault at the hands of a serial rapist, and in so doing, examines the horrors of trauma and denial. Alone in an unlocked house in a safe neighborhood in the suburban town of Concord, Massachusetts, two good, obedient girls, Jessica Stern, fifteen, and her sister, fourteen, were raped on the night of October 1, 1973. The girls had just come back from ballet lessons and were doing their homework when a strange man armed with a gun entered their home. Afterward, when they reported the crime, the police were skeptical. The rapist was never caught. For over thirty years, Stern denied the pain and the trauma of the assault. Following the example of her family, Stern—who lost her mother at the age of three, and whose father was a Holocaust survivor—focused on her work instead of her terror. She became a world-class expert on terrorism, a lauded academic and writer who interviewed terrorists around the globe. But while her career took off, her success hinged on her symptoms. After her ordeal she could not feel fear in normally frightening situations. Stern believed she'd disassociated from the trauma altogether, until a devoted police lieutenant reopened the sisters' rape case and brought her back to that harrowing night more than three decades past. With the help of the lieutenant, Stern began her own investigation—bringing to bear all her skills as a researcher—to uncover the truth about the town of Concord, her family, and her own mind. The result is Denial , a candid, courageous, and ultimately hopeful look at a trauma and its aftermath.
July 9, 2017 read
作者文字较为细碎,不是我喜欢的叙述风格,但这本书仍值得大力推荐。作者深入自己被强奸的案卷,走访与案犯有关联者和有同类创伤者,对创伤的代际传递、PTSD患者的过度唤起和解离症状、创伤经验中的耻辱感、周围人的否认造成的二次创伤等等诸多问题都有令读者亲临其境般的讲述。最伤人的永远是人心
回忆录 美国
Why Teach? Douban
author: Edmundson, Mark publishing house: Bloomsbury 2013 - 8
Mark Edmundson's essays reclaim college not as the province of high-priced tuition, career training, and interactive online courses, but as the place where serious people go to broaden their minds and learn to live the rest of their lives.
A renowned professor of English at the University of Virginia, Edmundson has felt firsthand the pressure on colleges to churn out a productive, high-caliber workforce for the future. Yet in these essays, many of which have run in places such as Harper's and the New York Times, he reminds us that there is more to education than greater productivity. With prose exacting yet expansive, tough-minded yet optimistic, Edmundson argues forcefully that the liberal arts are more important today than ever.
Why Teach? offers Edmundson's collected writings on the subject, including several pieces that are new and previously unpublished. What they show, collectively, is that higher learning is not some staid, old notion but a necessary remedy for our troubled times. Why Teach? is brimming with the wisdom and inspiration that make learning possible.
The Great Gatsby Douban
9.1 (18 ratings) author: 斯科特·菲茨杰拉德 publishing house: Scribner 2004 - 9
In 1922, F. Scott Fitzgerald announced his decision to write "something new--something extraordinary and beautiful and simple and intricately patterned." That extraordinary, beautiful, intricately patterned, and above all, simple novel became The Great Gatsby, arguably Fitzgerald's finest work and certainly the book for which he is best known. A portrait of the Jazz Age in all of its decadence and excess, Gatsby captured the spirit of the author's generation and earned itself a permanent place in American mythology. Self-made, self-invented millionaire Jay Gatsby embodies some of Fitzgerald's--and his country's--most abiding obsessions: money, ambition, greed, and the promise of new beginnings. "Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgiastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that's no matter--tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther.... And one fine morning--" Gatsby's rise to glory and eventual fall from grace becomes a kind of cautionary tale about the American Dream.
It's also a love story, of sorts, the narrative of Gatsby's quixotic passion for Daisy Buchanan. The pair meet five years before the novel begins, when Daisy is a legendary young Louisville beauty and Gatsby an impoverished officer. They fall in love, but while Gatsby serves overseas, Daisy marries the brutal, bullying, but extremely rich Tom Buchanan. After the war, Gatsby devotes himself blindly to the pursuit of wealth by whatever means--and to the pursuit of Daisy, which amounts to the same thing. "Her voice is full of money," Gatsby says admiringly, in one of the novel's more famous descriptions. His millions made, Gatsby buys a mansion across Long Island Sound from Daisy's patrician East Egg address, throws lavish parties, and waits for her to appear. When she does, events unfold with all the tragic inevitability of a Greek drama, with detached, cynical neighbor Nick Carraway acting as chorus throughout. Spare, elegantly plotted, and written in crystalline prose, The Great Gatsby is as perfectly satisfying as the best kind of poem.
自体心理学的理论与实践 Douban
7.6 (5 ratings) author: 怀特 / 韦纳 translator: 吉莉 publishing house: 中国轻工业出版社 2013 - 2
《自体心理学的理论与实践》是为那些已经在使用或者计划使用已故的海因兹·科胡特(HeinzKohut)关于自体心理学的概念的专业人士,如精神分析和心理治疗工作者,提供一些洞察和指导。通过对理论与实践的整合,《自体心理学的理论与实践》作者怀特、韦纳从自己的治疗经验中提供个案素材,向人们展示如何将自体心理学运用到各类来访者身上,其结果不仅使人受益,而且令人振奋,有时还充满着惊喜。 编辑推荐 《自体心理学的理论与实践》可以说是目前为止最好的经典自体心理学的入门著作之一。精神分析初学者开始接触自体心理学时,如果上来就阅读自体心理学创始人科胡特的著作,如《自体的分析》、《自体的重建》、《精神分析治愈之道》等等,会感到十分吃力。科胡特本人在经典精神分析以及自我心理学中都有深厚造诣,而当时他所处的时代需要他向传统精神分析学者给出自体心理学的答复回应,所以初学者很容易因其著作中呈现出的多种精神分析观点与自体心理学观点的交错而迷惑,无法直接轻松理解和把握自体心理学的基本概念和实操框架。而《自体心理学的理论与实践》则帮助初学者跨越了这一学习的鸿沟。两位作者怀特、韦纳是跟随科胡特多年的嫡传弟子,结合自己丰富的临床精神分析治疗和案例督导经验,用清晰的条理有力地阐述了自体心理学。
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为什么称本书为“真正的”心理咨询宝典呢?因为在阅读它时,我总能从灵魂深处爆发出一种共鸣。在观赏作者对理论的细致解读与案例的生动描述时,时常会发现,自己在人生不同阶段中的一些内心体验的片段被赤裸裸地剖析、袒露了,似乎自己的内心从来没有被别人这样深刻地理解、触摸过,除了一种醍醐灌顶的舒畅之外,更有对自体心理学模式下共情方式的欣赏与赞叹。传说中贴近体验的共情,原本是如此的感人、诱人,让人在一瞥之间已然欲罢不能。 ——吉莉
Trauma and the Body Douban
author: Pat Ogden / Kekuni Minton publishing house: W. W. Norton & Company 2006 - 10
Psychological trauma profoundly affects the body, often disrupting normal physical functioning when left unresolved. "Trauma and the Body" provides a detailed review of research in neuroscience, trauma dissociation and attachment theory that points to the need for an integrative mind-body approach to trauma. Readers are instructed in practical techniques that will help clients deal with trauma.
June 3, 2017 read
创伤治疗课的教科书之一,写得简明易懂,理论很丰富也令人深省。心理问题不可能没有生理基础,创伤对生理(主要是中枢神经系统)的改变也反映了这一互相作用的过程。
美国 心理学
Twin Peaks Season 2 (1990) Douban TMDB Douban Douban Douban Bangumi
Twin Peaks Season 2 part of TV Series: Twin Peaks
7.8 (233 ratings) director: 大卫·林奇 / 莱丝莉·琳卡·格拉特 actor: 凯尔·麦克拉克伦 / 迈克尔·昂吉恩
The town's dark side and secrets become more prominent in Agent Cooper's investigation into who killed Laura Palmer. As the unbelievable details reveal themselves, he risks everything to learn the truth, including his own soul.
Lying on the Couch Douban
author: Irvin D. Yalom publishing house: Basic Books 1996 - 7
There is plenty of lying going on in psychotherapy offices to be found in Irvin D. Yalom's novel Lying on the Couch, and the lying is of every type defined in your average modern dictionary. Among those doing the lying are Carolyn, who hopes to ruin the career of psychotherapist Ernest Lash because she believes his advice led her husband to seek a divorce. Then there is the gambler whose plan is to lure another psychotherapist into malpractice so he can sue and pay off his debts. In Yalom's world, the relationship between therapist and patient is a tricky one indeed, and it's sometimes hard to tell who needs advice and counseling more--the patient lying on the couch or therapist sitting nearby.
May 21, 2017 read
拿文学的眼光看,这本书在谋篇布局上比起《叔本华的治疗》要差一些,论思想上的震撼性则不比《当尼采哭泣》。但此书仍是叫人一开始读就放不下,并且我觉得应列为心理卫生从业者的必读书:职业伦理方面最容易出差错、诱惑性最强大的那些方面,这本小说全都涉及到了,而且写得惊心动魄。亚隆能够想到并写出这么一部作品,真是太令人钦佩了。
Irvin_Yalom 文学 英语文学 美国 外国文学
All About Eve (1950) Douban IMDb TMDB WikiData
All About Eve
8.6 (232 ratings) director: Joseph L. Mankiewicz actor: 贝蒂·戴维斯 / 安妮·巴克斯特
other title: 이브의 모든 것 / イヴの総て
From the moment she glimpses her idol at the stage door, Eve Harrington is determined to take the reins of power away from the great actress Margo Channing. Eve maneuvers her way into Margo's Broadway role, becomes a sensation and even causes turmoil in the lives of Margo's director boyfriend, her playwright and his wife. Only the cynical drama critic sees through Eve, admiring her audacity and perfect pattern of deceit.
May 14, 2017 watched
和《日落大道》竟是同一年的片子,虽不像前者那么紧凑,但悲剧意味也没那么强,讽刺性更多,结尾尤其精彩,众多角色演来都是举重若轻的感觉。不管是在电影界还是戏剧界,女演员的奋斗与迟暮,相似的故事永远有的可讲。
美国经典电影 美国 欧美商业片
前朝梦忆 Douban
Return to Dragon Mountain: Memories of a Late Ming Man
7.5 (40 ratings) author: [美国] 史景迁 translator: 温洽溢 publishing house: 广西师范大学出版社 2010 - 9
张岱是公认的明代散文大家,其传世名著《陶庵梦忆》、《西湖梦寻》等堪称晚明小品文的代表。他出身仕宦家庭,早年衣食无忧,性喜游山玩水,深谙园林布置之法。但四十九岁那年,清兵入关,张岱的人生遭逢重大转折。他带着幸存的家人逸隐于绍兴龙山,务农为生,余生力修明史,八十八岁方成,是为《石匮书》,书成后不久亡故。
个人历史与家国历史相互映照、无法切割。面对挡不住的历史洪流,还归龙山是张岱的一个选择,能自主画下的一条人生界线。不论是怀志一生纂修的《石匮书》,还是《陶庵梦忆》里一幅幅简约、多情善感的前朝旧事,镶框着家族轶事与大时代的层层跌宕与悲喜交错──张岱一生的浮华与苍凉,在梦与忆的交错摆荡之间,隐隐浮现。
史景迁认为张岱不仅是史家,也是热爱历史的文人。他书写张岱的一生、内心转折及过往追忆的同时,更深层探讨张岱身为知识分子,是如何借由回忆以及修史确立自身的存在价值。在得与失之间,唯有捕捉消逝的回忆,以书写对抗遗忘,才能坦然面对、甚或抵抗世事的变迁与生命的无常;这一点,无疑反映了历史与书写的本质与关系。
May 1, 2017 read
读完此书觉得必须看看《陶庵梦忆》。跟张岱及其叔祖弟侄的文人生活比起来,我们今天的读书人生活显得太单一、乏味了。
历史 美国 海外中国研究
To Be or Not to Be (1983) Douban IMDb TMDB WikiData
To Be or Not to Be
8.4 (22 ratings) director: Alan Johnson actor: 梅尔·布鲁克斯 / 安妮·班克罗夫特
other title: 你逃我也逃 / 生死大逃亡
A bad Polish actor is just trying to make a living when Poland is invaded by the Germans in World War II. His wife has the habit of entertaining young Polish officers while he's on stage, which is also a source of depression to him. When one of her officers comes back on a Secret Mission, the actor takes charge and comes up with a plan for them to escape.
The Three Faces of Eve (1957) Douban IMDb TMDB WikiData
The Three Faces of Eve
7.7 (7 ratings) director: 农纳利·约翰逊 actor: 乔安娜·伍德沃德 / 大卫·斯佩德
other title: 三面夏娃 / 三面娇娃
A doctor treats a woman suffering from multiple personality disorder.
April 14, 2017 watched
08年看过但印象不深了。这次重看,发现是对DID的机制和治疗讲得挺清楚的片子。女演员的表演真实且精彩,不同人格之间的切换的确就是那个样子。但我不确定影片使用的是否是真实案例,因为片中的故事和多数DID患者的现实比起来还是太理想化了。
美国经典电影 美国 欧美商业片
The New Psychoanalysis Douban
author: Meadow, Phyllis W.; Lemert, Charles; publishing house: Rowman & Littlefield 2003 - 10
The New Psychoanalysis explores and explains important developments in psychoanalytic thought and practice since Freud's death in 1939. Drawing on the experience of her many years of clinical work with patients, as well as research and teaching in the training institutes she directs, Phyllis W. Meadow offers convincing testimony of the power of the unconscious forces that drive our thinking, feeling, and behaving. She shows how the mind unfolds in the face of tensions native to the unconscious life and how psychoanalysis is applicable to the full range of emotional disorders. This highly accessible book is ideal for the therapist or psychologist, as well as the social theorist or general reader, who is concerned with the hold of aggression on the lives of human beings facing a world still as violent and destructive as it was in Freud's day. The introduction, by Charles Lemert, provides a challenging essay on the connections between psychoanalytic and social theories.
April 8, 2017 read
某些地方不易懂但整体上非常好看。本书对 Spotnitz在美国开创的现代精神分析学派做了挺深入的介绍。除了建基于弗洛伊德晚期的双重驱力/驱力融合理论,这一流派还以情感沟通取代了大部分的阐释,并因而将精神分析适用的范围由神经症而拓宽至包括了重症精神病和人格障碍患者(主要是自恋人格)。此外,本书对现代精分师的工作方式、移情与退行的内涵、心理症状的躯体化、来访者产生心灵成长的机制、社会历史环境中攻击性的病态释放等问题都有讨论。
精神分析 美国 心理学
当呼吸化为空气 Douban
When Breath Becomes Air
8.5 (140 ratings) author: [美] 保罗·卡拉尼什 translator: 何雨珈 publishing house: 猫头鹰文化·浙江文艺出版社 2016
全世界只有万分之零点一二的人会在36岁前患上肺癌,保罗·卡拉尼什(Paul Kalanithi)是其中之一。当你读到这本书时,他已经不在人世。保罗曾获得过美国斯坦福大学英语文学及人体生物学双料学位,并于英国剑桥大学获得科学史与哲学研究硕士学位,以优异成绩获得美国耶鲁大学医学博士学位,即将获得斯坦福医学院外科教授职位并主持自己的研究室。2013年,即将抵达人生巅峰的保罗,忽然被诊断出患有第四期肺癌。自此,他开始以医生和患者的双重身份,记录自己的余生,反思医疗与人性。他的文章刊登在《纽约时报》《华盛顿邮报》等媒体,获得了全球读者关注。本书文笔优美,诚挚感人,书里有着对人性、生死、医疗的深沉思索,让全球无数读者为之动容。
March 30, 2017 read
文字简明流畅、内容深刻隽永的好书,读的时候会觉得作者在风华正茂的年龄死去,简直是人类和人性的损失。医学伦理、生死大义与文学、哲学、宗教的结合,绝非生拉硬扯,而是作者以整个生命所做的实践,因此有特别动人的力量。
回忆录 美国
Thoughts Without A Thinker Douban
author: Mark Epstein publishing house: Basic Books 1996
Thoughts Without a Thinker is the landmark book that brought the worlds of Buddhism and psychotherapy into contact with each other, and changed thousands of lives. Drawing upon his own experience as therapist, meditator, and patient, Mark Epstein, a New York-based psychiatrist trained in classical Freudian methods, integrates Western psychotherapy and the teachings of Buddhism.In accessible, intimate language, this enlightening guide explains the unique psychological contributions of the teachings of Buddhism, describes the path of meditation in contemporary psychological language, and lays out the possibility of a meditation-inspired psychotherapy. Mark Epstein's new introduction reflects on the impact of the book and on the evolving relationship between psychotherapy and Buddhism.
Psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profession Douban
author: Malcolm, Janet publishing house: Vintage 1982 - 9
Through an intensive study of "Aaron Green," a Freudian analyst in New York City, New Yorker writer Janet Malcolm reveals the inner workings of psychoanalysis.
March 1, 2017 read
一本与我同龄的书,但没有觉得过时,真的很好看。可贵之处在于,作者做了很多案头和采访工作,除了以较长篇幅介绍弗洛伊德思想的发展、NYPI的秘闻和八卦,还涉及了精神分析界的理论分歧、对精分疗法的实证研究、来访者的可分析性、移情与终止关系问题,以及分析师面临的挑战和职业性的伤害等方面。文笔深入浅出、生动有趣。
文化随笔/文化批评 精神分析 美国 心理学
Ordinary People (1980) Douban IMDb TMDB WikiData
Ordinary People
7.7 (41 ratings) director: 罗伯特·雷德福 actor: 唐纳德·萨瑟兰 / 玛丽·泰勒·摩尔
other title: 普通人 / 凡夫俗子
Beth, Calvin, and their son Conrad are living in the aftermath of the death of the other son. Conrad is overcome by grief and misplaced guilt to the extent of a suicide attempt. He is in therapy. Beth had always preferred his brother and is having difficulty being supportive to Conrad. Calvin is trapped between the two trying to hold the family together.
Feb. 4, 2017 watched
3.5星。“丧失”这个带有哲学性的主题并不好处理,我觉得影片在挖掘人物心理深度方面已经做得不错,但结尾处若能压抑到底则更好。临床教授的话言犹在耳:We're built for attachment.我加一句:But life is meant to face loss.
美国 欧美商业片
布达佩斯往事 Douban
Enemies of the People
7.9 (60 ratings) author: [美] 卡蒂·马顿 translator: 毛俊杰 publishing house: 广西师范大学出版社 2016 - 1
本书通过冷战时期匈牙利秘密警察长达20年的档案,所揭开的一部隐藏了几十年的家庭历史和时代侧记。
冷战时期,苏联集团中的匈牙利,秘密警察通过庞大的告密网,试图全面渗透控制匈牙利的政治生活。作者的父母原是匈牙利著名记者,他们的报道是西方了解匈牙利的重要信息来源。因此他们被视为“人民的敌人”,长期受秘密警察的监控,终因叛国和间谍罪而先后入狱。一家移居美国后,匈牙利政府却又异想天开地试图招募他们当间谍,而美国也对他们进行了几年的监控。书中不只还原了马顿夫妇被告密者包围的经历和遭遇,他们的抗争、坚守、脆弱和勇气,也展现了他们情感和内心的矛盾——夫妻之间相互的感情背叛与灾难中的支撑,父母子女之间的爱与亲情,人性的坚强与软弱,从而使得这本书更为丰富、复杂,具有血肉。
Jan. 25, 2017 read
虽然我与作者的立场不尽相同、不喜欢书中父母对“灯塔国”的极度向往和赞美,但这本书的确是在作者的西方自由主义意识形态的可行范围内做到了最大程度的客观和还原。即便历史早已熟知,也仍然需要这样有血有肉的故事来填充我们对冷战史的想象。对于作为个体读者的我来说,在这类阅读中重要的不是提取历史的脉络,而是体会亲历者的处境与选择。
历史 回忆录 美国