2020
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娇惯的心灵 Douban
The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure
6.9 (11 ratings) author: [美] 格雷格·卢金诺夫 / [美] 乔纳森·海特 translator: 田雷 / 苏心 publishing house: 生活·读书·新知三联书店 2020 - 7
为什么中产阶级的家长都成了“虎爸虎妈”，作为“直升机式”教育方法的信徒，把孩子们照看得密不透风？
为什么这些中产阶级的孩子，虽能在学术履历的“军备竞赛”中脱颖而出，却在青春期时成为前所未见的脆弱一代，从焦虑到抑郁，这一代似乎毫无免疫力？
为什么生于互联网时代，孩子们却惯于在社交媒体构筑的虚拟世界里寻找意见的共鸣，面对不同的观点和立场，用举报的方式来消除自己的不安全感？
为什么大学也失去了教育者的担当，把学生当作永远都对的消费者，迎合学生成为改革目标，一时间，几乎所有文明传统关于教育的智慧都被抛在脑后？
《娇惯的心灵》是一部“社会科学的侦探小说”，作者抽丝剥茧，回答了“钢铁”是怎么没能炼成的美国故事。对于任何一位关注教育、青少年心理，以及互联网一代的读者都值得一读。
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从幼儿园开始，孩子们的每一天都要受到父母的严格安排和设计。放学后，不再能自由玩耍，而要参加各种补习班以及其他有人组织并监管的活动，唯一的目的就是要超过其他孩子。
生于互联网时代，大学生却惯于在社交媒体构筑的虚拟世界里寻找意见的共鸣，面对不同的观点和立场，他们往往用举报的方式来消除自己的不安全感。
进入21世纪的第二个十年，美国青少年患抑郁症和焦虑症的比例大幅激增，自杀率呈现急剧上升的趋势。心理焦虑，已经成为大学生寻求心理治疗的首要问题。
与其为孩子铺好路，不如让孩子学会如何走好路。有些善意的保护可能会适得其反，过度保护和过度教育，反而会让我们的孩子成为“脆弱的一代”。这不能简单归咎于父母和教育管理者，更不能归咎于“娇惯”的孩子，全社会应共同反思和努力做出改变。
Jan. 27, 2022 read
正好最近在听90s pc讨论和right-wing制造的“假想敌”，想想还是记录一下：什么年代了白男还在强调“good intentions”、“equal opportunities”，评论提到Bloom的《美国精神的封闭》funny cuz that was also part of a long term plan
非虚构 2020
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Secrets of the Saqqara Tomb (2020) Douban
Secrets of the Saqqara Tomb
7.8 (21 ratings) director: James Tovell
other title: 塞加拉陵墓的秘密
该纪录片将为观众呈现埃及考古学家在挖掘出一个未曾打开过的4400年前的坟墓之后，试图破译这一惊人发现背后的历史秘密。
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Bridgerton Season 1 (2020) Eggplant.place TMDB Douban Bangumi
Bridgerton Season 1 part of TV Series: Bridgerton
6.2 (126 ratings) director: 朱莉·安妮·罗宾逊 / 谢雷·福克森 … actor: 菲比·黛内芙 / 雷吉-让·佩吉 …
The eight close-knit siblings of the Bridgerton family look for love and happiness in London high society.
Sept. 16, 2021 watched
好吧，几乎没怎么看过热门romance，如果这部忠于原著的话那的确只要看这一本就够了2333和阅读浪漫小说里一毛一样
2020
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Night in Paradise (2020) IMDb Douban TMDB WikiData
낙원의 밤
5.7 (35 ratings) director: 朴勋政 actor: 严泰九 / 全余赟 …
other title: 乐园之夜 / 낙원의 밤 …
An assassin named Tae-goo is offered a chance to switch sides with his rival Bukseong gang, headed by Chairman Doh. Tae-goo rejects the offer that results in the murder of his sister and niece. In revenge, Tae-goo brutally kills Chairman Doh and his men and flees to Jeju Island where he meets Jae-yeon, a terminally ill woman. Though, the henchman of the Bukseong gang, Executive Ma is mercilessly hunting Tae-goo to take revenge.
April 13, 2021 watched
虽然serious guy和playful girl（倒也不算）的组合百看不厌，但这个文不文武不武的剧本是不是有点过分敷衍了。
韩国 犯罪 2020
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To Sleep in a Sea of Stars (Audiobook) Douban
author: Christopher Paolini / Jennifer Hale (Narrator) publishing house: Macmillan Audio 2020 - 9
Listening time: 32 hrs 29 min
A brand new space opera on an epic scale from the New York Times bestselling author of a beloved YA fantasy series.
It was supposed to be a routine research mission on an uncolonized planet. But when xenobiologist Kira Navárez finds an alien relic beneath the surface of the world, the outcome transforms her forever and will alter the course of human history.
Her journey to discover the truth about the alien civilization will thrust her into the wonders and nightmares of first contact, epic space battles for the fate of humankind, and the farthest reaches of the galaxy.
March 26, 2021 read
拿完gr choice奖后得分肉眼可见地刷刷往下掉。这个题材和starship iris好像......意外的不是我的茶。
2020 虚构 2021-audible 科幻 Goodreads
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midnight love Douban
girl in red genre: Pop
release date 2020-04-14 publisher: self-released
挪威新生代歌手Girl In Red发布全新单曲《Midnight Love》，一首关于梦幻和欲望的钢琴故事，也是Girl In Red迄今为止最为亲密和真诚的创作。
Girl In Red has shared a taster of her hotly-anticipated debut album with new single ‘Midnight Love’, which marks “the start of a new phase”.
The rising Norwegian singer-songwriter (real name Marie Ulven) has declared this year as hers to carry out what she calls ‘World In Red’ – a quest for global domination. To start, she has shared the tender and cinematic new track ‘Midnight Love’.
“This song is about me making someone feel really small,” Ulven said. “I have a really close friend that’s had this dude calling and texting her all the time, every night. At 3am, he’s like, ‘Are you awake?’ He’s not necessarily using her intentionally, but it’s become this relationship where he’s kinda calling her to get laid. That reminded me of something that I was doing to this girl.
“When I was on tour I would just call her every night. It was a very unhealthy thing for me to do to someone – to make them feel like they weren’t worth that much. It’s just me reflecting on how I made this person feel.”
Ulven continued: “I met up with her a couple of weeks ago after I sent the song. She wanted to meet up because she was like, ‘Wait – did I make you feel like this? What’s going on?’ But then I explained that I was actually writing it from her perspective.”
With ‘Midnight Love’ as her latest song complete this year and “very much a signpost of how she feels right now”, Ulven is ploughing ahead with completing her first album.
“I worked on a couple more ideas after ‘Midnight Love’ and I’m getting more of a direction for the whole record,” she said. “The album is still cooking and I want to be sure that I put the best stuff on there. I want it feel present and close to me. I’ve got plenty of bangers that are still on the table.
“Coronavirus ain’t gonna stop World In Red, baby! I’ve got some pretty dope-ass plans for the winter. I’m gonna be fucking mad if they don’t happen.”
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76天 (2020) Douban
76 Days
7.6 (104 ratings) director: 吴皓 / 陈玮曦
other title: 76 Days
影片深入武汉医院重症监护室，以极近距离展现了患者和医护人员日常的工作和生活状态。
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9cut Douban
洪时英 Giriboy genre: 放克/灵歌/R&B
release date 2020-12-23 publisher: Kakao M corp.
Jan. 9, 2021 listened
2020
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Greenland (2020) Douban WikiData IMDb TMDB Min reol Skybridge
Greenland
5.1 (71 ratings) director: 里克·罗曼·沃夫 actor: 杰拉德·巴特勒 / 莫蕾娜·巴卡琳 …
other title: 末日逃生 / 末世绿洲(港) …
John Garrity, his estranged wife and their young son embark on a perilous journey to find sanctuary as a planet-killing comet hurtles toward Earth. Amid terrifying accounts of cities getting levelled, the Garritys experience the best and worst in humanity. As the countdown to the global apocalypse approaches zero, their incredible trek culminates in a desperate and last-minute flight to a possible safe haven.
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Cardiff, by the Sea Douban
author: Joyce Carol Oates publishing house: Mysterious Press 2020 - 10
From one of the most important contemporary American writers, Cardiff, by the Sea is a bold, haunting collection of four previously unpublished novellas. In the titular novella, an academic in Pennsylvania discovers a terrifying trauma from her past after inheriting a house in Cardiff, Maine from someone she has never heard of. Mia, the protagonist of "Miao Dao," is a pubescent girl overcome with loneliness, who befriends a feral cat that becomes her protector from the increasingly aggressive males that surround her.
A brilliant but shy college sophomore realizes that she is pregnant in "Phan-tomwise: 1972." Distraught, she allows a distinguished visiting professor to take her under his wing, though it quickly becomes evident that he is interested in more than an academic mentorship. Lastly, "The Surviving Child" is Stefan, who was spared when his mother, a famous poet, killed his sister and herself. Stefan's father remarries, but his young wife is haunted by dead poet's voice dancing in the wind, an inexplicably befouled well, and a compulsive draw to the same gar-age that took two lives.
In these psychologically daring, chillingly suspenseful pieces, Joyce Carol Oates writes about women facing threats past and present.
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Perestroika in Paris Douban Goodreads
author: Jane Smiley publishing house: Knopf 2020 - 12
From the Pulitzer Prize-winning and best-selling author: a captivating, brilliantly imaginative story of three extraordinary animals--and a young boy--whose lives intersect in Paris.
Paras, short for "Perestroika," is a spirited racehorse at a racetrack west of Paris. One afternoon at dusk, she finds the door of her stall open and--she's a curious filly--wanders all the way to the City of Light. She's dazzled and often mystified by the sights, sounds, and smells around her, but she isn't afraid.
Soon she meets an elegant dog, a German shorthaired pointer named Frida, who knows how to get by without attracting the attention of suspicious Parisians. Paras and Frida coexist for a time in the city's lush green spaces, nourished by Frida's strategic trips to the vegetable market. They keep company with two irrepressible ducks and an opinionated raven. But then Paras meets a human boy, Etienne, and discovers a new, otherworldly part of Paris: the ivy-walled house where the boy and his nearly-one-hundred-year-old great-grandmother live in seclusion.
As the cold weather and Christmas near, the unlikeliest of friendships bloom. But how long can a runaway horse stay undiscovered in Paris? How long can a boy keep her hidden and all to himself? Jane Smiley's beguiling new novel is itself an adventure that celebrates curiosity, ingenuity, and the desire of all creatures for true love and freedom.
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That Mad Ache Douban
author: Françoise Sagan translator: Douglas R. Hofstadter publishing house: Basic Books 2009 - 5
That Mad Ache , set in high-society Paris in the mid-1960’s, recounts the emotional battle unleashed in the heart of Lucile, a sensitive but rootless young woman who finds herself caught between her carefree, tranquil love for 50-year-old Charles, a gentle, reflective, and well-off businessman, and her sudden wild passion for 30-year-old Antoine, a hot-blooded, impulsive, and struggling editor. As Lucile explores these two versions of love, she vacillates in confusion, but in the end she must choose, and her heart’s instinct is surprising and poignant. Originally published under the title La Chamade , this new translation by Douglas Hofstadter returns a forgotten classic to English. In Translator, Trader , Douglas Hofstadter reflects on his personal act of devotion in rewriting Françoise Sagan’s novel La Chamade in English, and on the paradoxes that constantly plague any literary translator on all scales, ranging from the humblest of commas to entire chapters. Flatly rejecting the common wisdom that translators are inevitably traitors, Hofstadter proposes instead that translators are traders, and that translation, like musical performance, deserves high respect as a creative act. In his view, literary translation is the art of making subtle trades in which one sometimes loses and sometimes gains, often both losing and gaining at the same time. This view implies that there is no reason a translation cannot be as good as the original work, and that the result inevitably bears the stamp of the translator, much as a musical performance inevitably bears the stamp of its artists. Both a companion to the beloved Sagan novel and a singular meditation on translation, Translator, Trader is a witty and intimate exploration of words, ideas, communication, creation, and faithfulness.
Dec. 29, 2020 read
匆匆读完中文版给英文版打个分，浓烈狂热流畅优美，比中译好读。
法国 女性 虚构 2020
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狂乱 Douban
La Chamade
8.2 (17 ratings) author: [法]弗朗索瓦丝·萨冈 translator: 余中先 publishing house: 人民文学出版社 2019 - 11
* “安托万爱你是为了跟你在一起。他想跟你在一起得到幸福，那是他那种年龄的想法。而我，我想要的是让你幸福，独立于我的幸福。我只有等待了。” *
妩媚、聪慧的吕茜尔与有钱人夏尔同居，共享优裕的生活和体面的朋友圈。在一次社交晚宴上，吕茜尔认识了出版社编辑安托万，两人的默契逐渐转化为恋情。安托万要求吕茜尔做出选择，吕茜尔决定离开夏尔。夏尔自认看透了爱情的真相，笃信她会回来。
Dec. 29, 2020 read
她是夏尔的金丝雀，却得到了有限可能里属于自己的无尽自由。对于安托万来说，他是幸福的附庸，她制造着属于自己的幸福，他和她则是被互相依附的幸福囚禁的鸟。两段分手和一次失而复得的热恋写得最好。萨冈炽热、精准地切入暴风雨一样的情爱之中，播种无来由的不安、痛苦，而这些是身处幸福暴风眼中的人无从体会的。（尾章写太好了。）
法国 虚构 弗朗索瓦丝·萨冈 2020
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暴雨 Douban
Tempête
7.1 (11 ratings) author: [法] 勒克莱齐奥 translator: 唐蜜 publishing house: 人民文学出版社 2018 - 1
本书收录了勒克莱齐奥于2014年出版的两部中篇小说。在这两个都与海有关的故事里，大海参与了主人公命运里的意外、失踪、暴力，也见证了主人公的成长与回归。
《暴雨》的故事发生在日本海的一座小岛上。克约曾是一位随军记者，三十年前，他的女伴玛丽随他上岛，而后谜一般地消失在大海里。三十年后，他带着沉重的秘密重返海岛，打算在这里结束噩梦。十三岁的女孩俊娜没有父亲，跟着母亲在岛上生活。尽管被别的孩子排挤，俊娜总能在海边找到安慰。她想成为母亲那样的海女，但母亲却希望她走向更宽广的天地。约克和俊娜在岛上相遇了，阴暗与纯真相互纠缠，两人窥探彼此的心事与渴望，然后继续各自的人生。
在《没有身份的女孩》里，主人公拉切尔幼年丧母，富有的父亲早早再婚，继母刻薄冷漠，同父异母的妹妹是她生活里唯一的温情。由于破产和战乱，一家人从非洲搬到了法国。在巴黎，拉切尔过上了更加浪荡、叛逆的生活，遇见了青涩的爱情，还见到了自己的生母，最后，她选择再次回到非洲，回到海边。从拉切尔的自述中，我们将看到“没有身份”的女孩如何看待周遭世界，如何接受命运并在命运中行动。